Is it just regional sensibilities, or is the term clit not always vulgar (vulgar in a fun who-gives-a-shit way of course) ? You know, like, if someone says clit instead of clitoris do you notice? are we still having coffee talk at that point? even if there isn't some assumed veil of politeness— would you talk about matters of the vagina and just be like, "oh my gawd Brenda, my fuckhole had quite the adventure at the salon today..."
Is it no longer a word built primarily for porno mag captions and throws of passion?