So, I was randomly reading about dating over 50 for, you know, a friend of mine who is pretty lame. This article from the Huffington Post gives 10 tips for dating over 50.
The first tip is "#1. Men Want To Meet The Real You"
The fifth tip is: #5. You May Be Proud Of What A Strong, Independent Woman You Are But Don't Flaunt This To An Over 50's Man!
So they want to meet the real you, but not if you are accomplished and confident. Bitch, you need to leave that shit home in your cold, lonely bed.
To be fair, the first is really about not trying to hide every physical imperfection, but still.