I generally don't like Slate but this article sort of captures my thinking on the song

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_facto…

It's the douchiest song on the radio to be sure, but I don't see the rapey elements. Is it the "I know you want it," ? Would that make "I know you want it" by Khia rapey?

[Chorus: repeat 4X]
I know you want it nigga
I know you want it
I know you want it
[verse]
I know you want it nigga
The way I flaunt it nigga
This pussys got you so sick wantin to suck it nigga
Touch it and fuck it nigga
Tell yo bitch fuck it nigga
To get her shit and just dip, I'm whatcha wantin nigga
Look how you sweatin nigga
Can't even help it nigga
Now whatcha came out for to see me steppin nigga
Only you betin nigga
Go down and smell it nigga
Summers Eve, winter fresh
What you expect?

Or Melissa Lujan: I Know What You Want

[Chorus:]
Boy, I know what you want (what you want)
You got it like this
Boy, I know what you want (what you want)
You got it like that

[Verse 1:]
Boy, you blow my mind
Everytime we touch
Got me fantisizing, I can't get enough
I'm addicted to you, you're my favourite drug
You're like my candy, baby
I need my sugar rush
Come alittle closer
What you waiting for
Cause I know you want it as much as I do
Got me so excited
I know you feel it too
Cause it's written all over your face
You want to taste
I know you want me
By the little things that you do
You make me want to get alittle closer to you
I know you want me
By the little things that you do

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You make me want to show you what I do to you

Or Luther Vandross - I Know You Want To

"I know you want to, girl, I know you want to
I am not ashamed to say to you, you're all I've ever wanted
I know you want to, girl, I know you want to
So turn around come to me nowIs it worth it all if there's no love?
Love, no no no no no, love"

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So can anyone who understands better than I do explain why it's rapey rather than just really douchey and gross? I'm not convinced by the use of words like blurry and "I know you want it" being rapey anymore than I'd be convinced "I love you" is rapey because some sick rapists use that line too. Or "I'll be gentle." Or any other cliche line that popular culture associates with rape and nonconsensual sex.