In addition to the financial concerns (he pays child support and covers our daughter's insurance), I'm really worried about him because he's not an emotionally healthy person. Plus this sets off all kinds of PTSD triggers for me because a big part of my breakdown three years ago involved financial fears. Which is nothing compared to what I'm sure he's going through. He and I don't have much of a relationship anymore (his current partner has seen to that) so it's just weird. I want to be sympathetic to him and at the same time I'm scared shitless about my and our daughter's financial future. I just have a really bad feeling about how this might turn out. Thanks for reading the vent, sorry for the outpouring. I'm just still in shock. He texted the news and I didn't want to have a long convo via text. He said he could talk tomorrow. I just feel like barfing.