Why does all his advice put the blame on the wife/girlfriend writing in? It’s kind of clear to a non-idiot that this woman’s husband is kind of an asshole? He seems to be putting the blame on this woman for I don’t know, wanting a husband/partner and not a roommate?

However, you’ve also dug yourself into a bit of a hole here. You inadvertently made something else he loves out to be the enemy.

Why is a man who looks nothing like his avatar allowed to give people advice??

My advice: DTMFA.